You know, I stopped shaving to think of something to write here. That worked out well.
Age 41, Male
Author / NG Mod
Old Skool
Vancouver, CANADA
Joined on 4/28/04
It is sad day. :(
Shame this has happened. I really enjoyed seeing Bex at the meet and I was hoping I'd see her again. Of course, the decision of the break up is only up to you two but it still sucks to hear the bad news.
Just take it easy for the time being, you hear?
I've got my outlets - I'll be busying myself with a spot of blamming on the portal.
Wow that's pretty shocking. Hope things get better Cooper.
<insert cliche about fish and the sea>
Relationships end every day. We would both be fools if we said that neither of us saw this coming. As strange as it sounds, we've ended it as well as I think we could have hoped, with good terms for both parties.
Oh then it sounds like you need to catch the next pimpmobile outta here.
Also I added you on Steam, I'm Fluttershy. WE CAN DISCUSS CIVILIZATIONS OF THE FIVE VARIETY.
Hot diggedy daffodil!
so sorry to read this :(
I'm feeling better about it now - It wasn't meant to be, I would be a fool to think that it was and waste my life trying to make it so.
Chin up, lad. You'll get through it.
I daresay I shall. It's going to be a long and difficult road, mind.
Damn dude, well it's better to have left off on a better foot than last time at least. Is this an indefinite done with thing, or are you two still going to just be friends?
Either way, as it's been said already: tomorrow will always be brighter. :)
We're going to try and stay friends - we play RPGs on Mondays and every other Saturday, so it's going to be strange if we just called it all off, because of the two of us.
We'll see how it goes - I want to game on Saturday, but she's not so sure. Perhaps it's a little too soon for her, but I'll respect her wishes, either way.
im sorry hear about you and your girlfriend man. I hope things get better for you and besides theres always the london meet up to look forward to
Provided I get the money in place - work reduced me to three days a week, now I have very little additional capital to work with.
I'll find a way, I think.
have a hug.. its the least i can do
Thanks man. I'm feeling better already :)
My sympathies.
I have to say thats not happened to me before. It's a shame for you that your girlfriend's Family was so uncompromising to your relationship- if it'd been me in that situation, I would have punched he father- but I guess I'm not you.
Hoping for the best.
~Heyno.
It's not that he had anything against our relationship - it's just that he's a fucking cunt. To me, to his own family, to anyone that stands in the way. I feel sorry for Bex for having to put up with him, but hopefully, she can find a way that is right for her.
I'm still her friend and the only person that can change my mind is either me or her.
I hope you find someone else, man, all the best.
All in good time. Thanks.
I just stumbled across your userpage but can somewhat relate to your story.
I broke up with my girlfriend (of not nearly as long) recently, and we were friends long before we saw each other. We're trying to stay friends, but jumped right in to it, and it's a hard thing to balance, especially when one person has feelings for the other. We're also in the same group of friends, and I'm good friends with her roommate(/sister). Seems there's no easy, natural way to go about it.
But that is quite a shitty week, and things always do get better eventually.
Things will turn around for me, I know that - I just have to deal with the "emotional speedbumps" that crop up in the path I'm taking at the moment.
Sorry to hear that Coop. I hope you and Bex can at least somehow remain friends. Though generally most relationship experts regard it as a dooming experience. You're both decent people though so I hope it can work out, and I'm sure in the future you both will more on gracefully and find happiness with other partners.
Most experts have never met Bex and I ;)
I think that we can work it out - we managed to saty together through four and a half years of thick and thin - we've both been through a lot together and it's changed our lives. I think that we're going to be friends for a long while yet.
That sucks, but at least you two are trying to be amicable about the break up...
I've been there done that, but I'm sure as you already know once the initial malaise wears off you'll come to realize why the relationship didn't work out, and hopefully use said revelations to find someone you'll really get along with in the future.
And of course there is always the red light district if you only wanna get your dick wet...
From what I've heard, the red light district comprises of one hooker in my home town - it would be like trying to have sex with the Goodyear Blimp. Plus a Russian Roulette of STIs.
HOLY SHIT, i just watched that part from the episode, Futurama S3 E12
your reply was
(I've been at Civ V - "Je suis Napoleon! Hahahaha! Nah, I'm just kidding, it's me, Bender!")
this was weird. and also, i hope your days and week gets better, hey just remember, a bad day, means a good day later.
I have been a Futurama fan for years - the quotes just stick with me, as do the voices :P
Don't go single for too long - women can tell (on sight) if you've been out of the relationship-game for a while. After two or three months, you'll have to start from square one.
I've got a good memory - I'll see how long it takes. If she's there for me, I'll have to make a play. Sometimes it just hits you and you've got to be ready for when it does.
Tough stuff. Hope it is sorting out for you. You may yet sort things out with Bex- I've seen it happen - but if I were you I would try and move on if you haven't already.
It took me until I was into my forties to find the right person. Its weird to look back on previous relationships that seemed so important and realise that though they were great experiences, I can manage without seeing any of those girls/women for the rest of my life now!
Try and find ways to help other people if you are sad, it takes the focus off yourself for a while, which helps.
Hope you do get to London, even if you are short of cash.
Women are weird, aren't they?
Well, I'll try to get my life sorted - we're past the birthdays now and I'm just trying to be her friend, while keeping an appreciable distance.
If everything goes as planned, I should be able to make it to London. We'll see.
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Damn that is a shitty week. Chin up lad and play some Caesar 3.
Coop
I've been at Civ V - "Je suis Napoleon! Hahahaha! Nah, I'm just kidding, it's me, Bender!"